My exhusband could never love me because he always told me the woman he was to met would be "5" feet, five years younger then him, and average in weight. I never fit this for the fact I am "5" feet "4" inches, two years older then him, and I have always been a heavy weight. My best friend's ideal guy is white, dark brown hair, hazel eyes, tall, and thin. She found this guy yet he is an alcoholic and even start a bad smoking habit. Another lady I know would not date someone shorter than herself, she stood at "5" feet "8 1/2" inches, she end up married to a guy "6" foot. My brother will not date any woman who is an inch overweight, for him she must be in good shape. Is anyone getting the point of where I am going with this? All of these people I told you about have an ideal person in mind, and many of us fall into this same trap, we want someone with a certain height, body size, or age. Not one of these people and I am sure many of you, your not thinking about this, how about meeting someone who is kind hearted, can bring happiness to my spirit, and can teach me something new. This brings me to the point I am trying to make, has it even come to your mind that you maybe missing out on a great person? Someone who will bring joy and love into your life rater than heartache. We look so hard on the outside of someone forgetting that people get old, they get grey hair, some get wrinkles, body starts to sag, and they begin not looking like the person we ideal them to be. I think it is high time we stop looking for skin beautiful and start looking into a heart of someone, for it is the heart which holds the fountain of youth, it is there that you will find the true glow of beautiful. Not on the outside which fades with time, for skin beauty last but in years, soul beautiful glows forever even when a body is place to rest. It is deep in our hearts where true love rest so I ask you to STOP MISSING OUT!