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Opening up and better accept the other person's surrender.

Posted on Mar 16, 2008 12:43 PM

Words
have a lot of spiritual power and make things happen in a relationship,
that’s why it’s important for the couple to try out the following
exercise. Take a seat opposite each other and make the questions you
need to clarify or carefully assess the way in which your sex and love
is working for both of you. Feel grateful for every answer you get,
because it is a way of opening up and better accept the other person’s
surrender.



These are possible questions you might want to ask
• What do you expect of our relationship which we still haven’t got?
• Do you feel I reach your heart when I caress you?
• Do you feel that whatever we do is geared towards our evolution?
• When we are together, pleasure is superb, but is there anything else you need?

The answers should be short, for instance:
• "What I’ve chipped into our relationship so far has been..."
• "I’d like our relationship to be more intimate..."
• "I need to feel more fulfilled and with you so far..."
Keep
making the same question until all has been said on the issue. When you
finish, try to find those points in common and those which turned out
to be more important, moving, or surprising. If you put this exercise
into practice frequently, you will feel an inner communion with your
partner.
With Love
Mabel Iam
I Love You. Now What?: Falling in Love is a Mystery, Keeping It Isn't



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About Me

Mabel Iam is the author of award-winning self-help bestsellers on love, psychology sold throughout the world. Mabel is a psychotherapist, a romance therapist, and adviser and expert in relationships, as well as a successful hostess and producer for TV and radio shows.