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Why Do We Fall in Love, and With Whom?

Posted on Mar 10, 2008 10:34 AM

No
other human activity is initiated with such powerful hopes and
expectations as an amorous relationship. This is true even for those
who have failed or encountered obstacles in the past with other
relationships. At the start of a new relationship, the enthusiasm of
gambling on love is renewed always. And, unlike most of life’s
activities, falling in love is not something we can plan ahead of time. It just happens.



It
also happens, sometimes, without us realizing it. For example, we may
find ourselves involved in a relationship and ask ourselves, “How did I
get to this point?” Then we realize that the words “I
love you” have escaped our hearts, our lips. It is at this point that
our mind asks, “What now?”
As
long as we are willing to admit it, every human being in some way goes
through this at some point in life. It’s that marvelous aspect of love
and relationships that cannot be controlled like other activities that
develop normally in our lives. And this is how all of these questions
arise after we hear ourselves affirm “I love you.”
Mabel Iam


"Among
the many answers I have found, I believe love is the most beautiful and
simple art that reflects the beauty of life."
Mabel Iam

I Love You. Now What?: Falling in Love is a Mystery, Keeping It Isn'

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About Me

Mabel Iam is the author of award-winning self-help bestsellers on love, psychology sold throughout the world. Mabel is a psychotherapist, a romance therapist, and adviser and expert in relationships, as well as a successful hostess and producer for TV and radio shows.