#35... Here's a quote from PTPON that I find mind bending. It refers to the powerful state of non-resistance and the actuality of taking control of your life.

...(p.124)..." Do not pollute your beautiful, radiant Being nor the Earth with negativity. Do not give unhappiness in any form whatsoever a dwelling place inside you"

Tolle is immensely aware of relationship and the necessity of inner surrender. It is very essential that people accept one another with no more tired and useless wasting of energy by judging,criticizing, and basically trying to change others. This is not the wimpy way out of tight situations. You may have to speak your mind firmly. A 'no' to a situation or person need not be drenched in negativity. But really, if you can't surrender, get away from the situation. In fact, get the heck out of it pronto! With some things it's better this way. When it comes right down to it friends, there is no problem in stating your perspective. That's what it is, no more, no less, it's your perspective. It's getting caught up or attached to the negativity which harms. Negativity travels in all directions fast...so does love. Be attentive. Be alert. Notice when negativity arises. Witness. Be yourself, the Witness. You'll see! Let things pass. If the situation appears impossible, again I stress, remove yourself from the fray as soon as you are able. The key to all of this is to take responsibility for your place, here, right now. Good advice, or what?!!!!

...peace, Bob (habs)