You and your partner will reflect back to each other the love you feel right now, from deep within you. This assumes the two of you no longer mirror unconsciousness and pain to each other. But hey, who are we kidding? This is basically how most relationships work...they don't! But this can change, if you change your perspective. It's that easy. If you have the feeling realization of your Oneness with All, you will know instinctively that Love has no opposite. So what if you do change, but your partner is not on the same page, consciously speaking, what then my friend? Forgiveness happens. It is entirely up to you to give your partner the space they need as well as your non-judgemental attitude to help them see (as they too are as sentient as you!), and feel the same love you feel inside of you, so deep inside, so strong, and true. Be kind. Be gentle. Be the best that you can consciously be. And that's pure goodness, and you know it! This is now your spiritual practice, you sadhana. Bless you for you part in it all!...and bless your partner for being such an apt teacher....you couldn't do this without them ...peace, habs