In Reality love has no opposite. However, in duality, or form, love does have an opposite. This comes to us in the forms of anger, blame, hate...the list goes on. You may think you love somebody and that they complete you, but until you come to terms with your own pain you will always end up blaming the other person for your own unhappiness. In Reality, happiness comes from within.

Let's begin by saying that Love is a state of Being. Stop judging yourself first, then, stop judging your partner. Dis-identify from the pain-body, witness your thoughts as well as your actions. Know yourself as Being. Now there is no more conflict, drama, pain. Now there is love, and joy, and peace! Co-dependency begone! So now, feel the Stillness of your Presence, beyond the veil of form and it's subsequent separation. As the watcher in this present moment, all power is yours.This is true empowerment! The pain-body loses it's phony strength to destroy that precious love within you. But how can you lose that which you already are? Love, and Consciousness are the same! peace, habs ...ps...you are free to share your love with your partner, now that you know where it comes from...this has to be an improvement from those tired sensory based relationships...now you are multi-sensory...let the light of your love shine forth as it is meant to shine!