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Photographer Tanveer Badal spent 101 days traveling Asia and Africa, and in so doing created one of those blogs that sears your eyeballs with its ridiculous beauty. It's a good place for a quick dose of vicarious travel, or many lost moments bathing your brain with images of pretty places. World feeling small? Not hardly! Look!
Photo: Tanveer Badal
Photo: Tanveer Badal

So anyway, Badal recently posted about the unexpected highlight of his extensive travel in Southeast Asia: Laos, AKA, "'that thing' between Thailand and Vietnam." He explains how Laos took him by surprise with its beauty, ruggedness, the friendliness of the natives, and above all, that mysterious sense of enchantment that accompanies all indescribably great experiences. He describes their first day in Laos: "...some of us went on a long hike to explore caves at a nearby national park while others napped. (And that’s what I like the most about SEA and extended travel in general. You can either go on an adventure or you can nap. And it’s totally cool either way.)"

Photo: Tanveer Badal
Photo: Tanveer Badal

It seems like a kind of travel Rorschach Test -- Answer quickly, without thinking: adventure or nap? I'm no psychiatrist, or even a travel agent, but I'm going to go ahead and say you should probably, for optimum health, think both. Adventure and naps are the yin and yang of life, the alpha and omega of recreation, the peanut butter and jelly of leisure. True for any of us enjoying a free moment, whether we're cooling our heels in a Laotian bungalow or kitty-cat-curling-up on a sunny couch, whether by adventure we mean long hike in caves or an afternoon making sand castles at the beach. And it's totally cool either way.

For more on Badal's photogenic adventures (and naps), visit his site.


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Three weeks ago, Oprah issued a love challenge to Kingsland, Georgia, and her love coaches went straight to work. While they've been helping settle town feuds and setting up town singles, they've realized something...that spreading the love might be more work than they thought.

Tune in to Lovetown, USA this Sunday at 10/9c on OWN and watch as Oprah and her love coaches transform a community.
Photo: Gregor Halenda
Photo: Gregor Halenda
Perfect for "fat days," this strategically paneled dress makes you look ten pounds lighter. 

Club Monaco, $199, clubmonaco.com.
Photo: Gregor Halenda
Photo: Gregor Halenda

Each piece in this Express suit is designed to work separately or together, and the color scheme (not to mention the leopard lining) is a fun twist on basic black. 

All items from Express: Jacket, $118. Vest, $69. Pencil Skirt, $69. Pants, $79.90.

Photo: Roger Neve
Photo: Roger Neve
Every woman needs a perfect black blazer, and this one by Norma Kamali is very well-made and affordable at $80. 

KamaliKulture, $80, kamalikulture.com
Topics: Fashion, Love That!
I believe that we learn by practice. Whether it means to learn to dance by practicing dancing or to learn to live by practicing living, the principles are the same.—Martha Graham

Got a question about haircare, skincare or makeup for O's beauty director, Val Monroe? Now's your chance! During the month of August, Val is answering your burning beauty questions!

Jody asked: I'm looking for a new fragrance for fall. What do you recommend?

See Val's video response:



Do you have a question for O's beauty director Val Monroe or O's creative director Adam Glassman? Ask away here!
Topics: Beauty
Photo: Robert Neve
Photo: Robert Neve
This is a coat that makes an entrance: The metallic fabric, quilted inner layer, and on-trend anorak shape are so gorgeous, it doesn't matter whether you're wearing jeans or sequins underneath. And at $215, this is one high-fashion garment that looks much more expensive than it is. 

Jacket, Asos, $215, asos.com.
Topics: Fashion, Love That!
Photo: Thinkstock
Photo: Thinkstock
Be good. It sounds like such a simple command, and one we would think we know how to obey. I will be good today, I'm sure of it. I will pick up after my dog. I will work hard. If I leave a snarky comment on someone's blog, it will be anonymously. I would never break the law, but if a friend confessed to having, say, looted a ship and buried pirate gold, I probably wouldn't tell anyone: is that wrong?

Luckily, or maybe unluckily, I don't know many pirates (over the age of three, anyway). But we all have these everyday ethics conundrums. If we learn of a wrong done in the past, do we have the responsibility to report it (pirate-related or not)? Is it possible to be too tolerant of other peoples' religious practices? How much privacy do we allow people in the age of the Internet? Randy Cohen, The Ethicist of the long-running New York Times column, addressed these issues and more when he was on NPR over the weekend to discuss his new book, Be Good: How to Navigate the Ethics of Everything.  What struck me most was his claim that, despite our quickly changing world of social media and altered interpersonal communications, ethics themselves have not changed much over time. Etiquette changes; social mores shift. But whether you're a Googler or a gladiator, the basic line stays the same: When in doubt about how to act, be good. We all know (pretty much) what that means.


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Men! What are they thinking? We can't always answer that, but we'll be posting our favorite glimpses into their world in this space every Thursday.

Photo: Candice Milon/Vlamboyant
Photo: Candice Milon/Vlamboyant
* Artist Candace Millon photographs classic outfits from film history—and without their famous stars filling them out, they're a lot less instantly recognizable. How many can you figure out? (Vlamboyant)

* Maybe you're a fan of The BFG or you count yourself as more of a Charlie and the Chocolate Factory loyalist. Either way, these mugs featuring Roald Dahl quotes and illustrations are too good to pass up. (MSMugs)

* The Wall Street Journal goes in search of the perfect shave. (WSJ)

"As the video on the Jumbotron panned across the kids’ faces, all of whom looked to be between 8 and 12 years old, and as [United States Tennis Association president Jon] Vegosen talked of tennis as "the sport of opportunity," I couldn't help but shed every fiber of cynicism from my body."—Rembert Browne, who grew up in Atlanta occasionally dreaming of tennis stardom, makes his first trip to the U.S. Open. (Grantland)
Topics: Men
"We're all part of this great mysterious outpouring of love," Sufi mystic Llewellyn Vaughan-Lee tells Oprah under the oak trees at her home in California. Center yourself this Sunday as the two discuss love, longing, and the source of true happiness on "Super Soul Sunday" at 11 am ET/PT on OWN. You can also watch from anywhere in the world on Oprah.com, Facebook.com/OWNTV or Facebook.com/SuperSoulSunday.
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