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Photo: Thinkstock
We love to remind ourselves to be grateful. But I have to admit something here: I don't know if I know how to actually say thanks. This occurred to me recently as I was cooking dinner, by which of course I mean purchasing it from my local Italian food shop -- the proprietor makes this justifiably famous rotisserie chicken and manages to do something to broccoli rabe that makes my children not only eat it but chant for it. (This is not typical behavior.) Anyway, the man who runs this store has a manner that is affable if exactly not given to effusiveness. But he is really, really good at saying thank you. He makes eye contact, and smiles slightly, and says, every time, "Thank you so much," and every time, I can't explain it, it just seems like he really, really means it. I've witnessed this same very sincere thank you given to customer after customer, and somehow even though it is always identical, it never feels artificial. It makes everyone feel special, and makes everyone smile.

It is the best thank you on Earth.

I'm trying to study this method of saying thank you. Not the cheerfully texted "thx!", not even that kindest of cyber-gestures, the retweet -- the actual, face-to-face, eye-to-eye, fully felt, "Thank you. Thank you so much." You know who they are, the people you need to thank: the customers who patronize your business, the shopkeepers who make dinner for your family when you can't deal. Try it, without smiling in a newscaster way, without adding verbal punctuation like "so so so, very very very" -- just mean it. Thank you.

Read More:
Oprah on the Power of Saying Thank You
An Attitude of Gratitude
Thank You Note Etiquette
The Neuroscience of Gratitude
In honor of the London Olympics Opening Ceremony tonight, here are a few things about the games we're grateful.
Photo: Getty Images
Photo: Getty Images
Above: The Olympic cauldron at the Torch Relay Finale Concert in London's Hyde Park

From the Phelps-Lochte showdown in the pool to the stunning precision of archers, all the Olympic games will be online this year [via NBC]

Team USA tumbles back into the rhythmic gymnastic arena for the first time since 2004 [via Time]

50 stunning Olympic moments [via The Guardian]

A case for daily reminders—when it's the race of your life (or, in our case, plain old life) [via Daily Mail]



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