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Self-reflection is a virtue. Whenever I misbehaved as a girl, my mother would make me go think about what I'd done. Considering one's actions is essential. I love Yeats's idea: "We make out of the quarrel with others, rhetoric, but of the quarrel with ourselves, poetry." It's okay to lose yourself. Sometimes I become so focused on my work, I go hours without a break until I realize the shadows are coming in at the windows. If I could, I'd take the train everywhere. I'm not as terrified of flying as I once was, but I do frequently dream about planes doing things they should not do. I will read War and Peace! I hate confessing this, but I've never gotten through it—though I own two copies, and am named for one of the main characters. I've got spirit—yes, I do. I was head cheerleader in college, and when I watch cheerleading on TV I feel compelled to comment on their form. It's a part of my past I have yet to let go of. Advertisement
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