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Photo: John Amis/The New York Times/Redux
Photo: John Amis/The New York Times/Redux
The recently  named U.S. poet  laureate discusses fears,  cheers, and what  keeps her focused.

Self-reflection  is a virtue.
Whenever  I misbehaved as a girl, my mother would make me go think about what I'd done. Considering one's actions is essential. I love Yeats's idea: "We make out of the quarrel with others, rhetoric, but of the quarrel with ourselves, poetry."

It's okay to lose yourself.
Sometimes I become so focused on my work, I go hours without a break until I realize the shadows are coming in at the windows.

If I could, I'd take the train everywhere.
I'm not as terrified of flying as I once was, but I do frequently dream about planes doing things they should not do.

I will read War and Peace!
I hate confessing this, but I've never gotten through it—though I own two copies, and am named for one of the main characters.

I've got spirit—yes, I do.
I was head cheerleader  in college, and when I watch cheerleading on TV I feel compelled to comment on their form. It's a part of my past I have yet to let go of.
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