Where Are They Now?

Jenny and Deedie recently celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary and say things are going great. "The dust has settled in our lives, and we are largely familiar to each other once again," Jenny says. "Most of the time we don't think about the fact that there's anything unusual about us."

There was a period where Deedie grieved for the loss of her husband, she says, but that was short-lived. "I don't have that anymore," she says. "What I do have is a terrific family. What I do have is a great partner, and our relationship is based on shared values, shared beliefs [and] shared responsibilities for the family."