People are feeling uneasy with our culture of distraction, Maggie says, but this culture of hurry and overload actually has been building for centuries. "Our world and the way we process time and space—the way we feel the planet is our global village—all started back with the first high-tech revolutions: the cinema, the railroad and the jet," she says. "We're now reaching a tipping point."
We're beginning to realize the costs of this distracted way of life, Maggie says. "We are constantly interrupted, and we're constantly working in snippets," she says. "We are prioritizing the snippets, the little to-do things on our agenda, but we're not wrestling with the deeper problems."
And we'll always be inundated by information, Maggie says, but we can learn how to control it. "We can use technology much more wisely than we are," she says. "We need to start speaking a language of attention." According to Maggie, there are three kinds of attention:
- Focus: the spotlight of the mind and the key to relating to others and concentrating
- Awareness: offers alertness, wakefulness and sensitivity to what's going on around you
- Executive: allows you to plan, make decisions and create order
- Don't accept that the culture of distraction is the way it has to be. "Understand all of the costs of multitasking and splitting your focus," Maggie says.
- Create "white space." Maggie says to set aside a time or a place for uninterrupted, unwired thought. Take time to stay still, collect yourself and plan your day.
- Be wary of interruptions. "We think an interruption is a bump in the road," Maggie says. "But actually because of our cognitive limitations (especially the limitations of our short-term working memory), we get lost."
The Oprah Winfrey Show
Oprah's Best Life Series
Harpo Films
For One More Day
The Great Debaters
O, The Oprah Magazine
Subscribe Today
Oprah Radio
Oprah's Angel Network
Oprah's Book Club